First off, thanks for your comments on the essay. I am glad to see so many A/O shippers enjoying my Hoyay thought process.

Secondly...we met at a Halloween party five years ago. We were each friends of one half of the couple hosting. I almost didn't go. And since I am not really allowed to look for other women, I doubt I am the best one to ask. Look into a local Stonewall Union branch or a gay bookstore that might have mixer info posted. I have found that there are tons of lesbians at women's sporting events and hardware stores. Try your local Homo Depot as well. Good luck!